My husband had to go to Cali for work he is living in Escondido I would like to move out there with our daughter but don't know were a safe affordable city is. I have been to his place in Escondido and it's ok but we just bought a house in a small suburb south of Phoenix so we could have a safe place to raise our daughter and I don't know if I want to go back to living in an apartment were I don't feel safe.